Monthly Archives: August 2011

Remembering 9/11

Posted on August 30, 2011 by admin

I have been watching footage from ten years ago when the planes struck the Twin Towers.  I had forgotten how stunned the world was – and how confused we were about what had happened and what it meant.  Even so, … Continue reading →

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Vulnerability

Posted on August 26, 2011 by admin

I have noticed a particular phenomenon.  When new or less secure relationships share a profound vulnerability, the relationship becomes at risk. There is a lady in the church who is a “closet alcoholic”.  She did some rehab at a clinic. … Continue reading →

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A “godly” argument

Posted on August 25, 2011 by admin

I am sitting in a coffee shop listening.  Two men are getting agitated with one anther as they discuss the implications and understanding of God’ law.  “If we cannot understand, why try?” Voices rise.  “I am in agreement with you, … Continue reading →

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Happy Anniversary

Posted on August 24, 2011 by admin

21 years of marriage.  Is that long?  Is it a milestone?  Is it  even commendable?  Does it speak to character?  Or is it more like the man who walked a mile in a day?  One step at a time – … Continue reading →

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Who am I?

Posted on August 19, 2011 by admin

The answer to this simple question seems to be paramount to the success and happiness of life.  I am Wife, mother, business woman, friend, pastor’s wife. I am tired, lonely, afraid. I am strong, confident, ready for a challenge. All … Continue reading →

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Perspective

Posted on August 17, 2011 by admin

When my children were young (4-12 years) they were best of friends with another family group.  Those particular children had a diversity of racial backgrounds – African American, Native American, and Mexican.  My girls were talking about racial diversity and … Continue reading →

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Marriage is not fair

Posted on August 15, 2011 by admin

When a couple first marries, there is often a sense of turns.  The household chores are divided evenly with attention paid to equality.  There might be negotiations about who gets the most hated chores or trade offs to get the … Continue reading →

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Silence can be deafening

Posted on August 8, 2011 by admin

Last week Tom sent a note to the elders inviting them to tell the shepherd he was wrong about camp promotions.  Since that time, the elders have not spoken.  (It is possible they answered Tom, but they did not advise … Continue reading →

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Staff wife creates stir

Posted on August 5, 2011 by admin

The drama continues and perhaps moved into a very dangerous place.  Terri is married to the associate pastor, Tom.  The two of them (Terri and her husband) hold the most power and influence at the church.  Terri contacted the shepherd … Continue reading →

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